The EP can be split evenly between those two topics. Three songs focus on Bourque's relationship with his wife: "Steal Every Slow Dance," "The Hardest Parts," and the softest track of the bunch, "Our Life in Boxes." These tracks tend to have the most Relient K feel to them--especially the playful "Steal Every Slow Dance," with humorous lyrics scattered throughout. Bourque, however, isn't afraid to admit that marriage can be tough sometimes. On "The Hardest Parts" he sings, "There were nights I slept facing the wall/Not sure how we'd make it through at all/But your voice was a lifeline, even low/Like headlights cutting through the snow." While he shows the shadow side of marriage, these tracks are odes to the love he has for his wife. "Our Life in Boxes" has the tender lines, too, "Still every few years pack our lives up in boxes/I'm so glad that I had you as a constant." Although these songs are clearly tied to Bourque's marriage, the sentiment is general enough for anybody to relate to their own experience.
The other side of this EP's coin is the spiritually driven songs. If the marriage songs are about gratitude for a spouse's love, these three tracks wrestle with doubt. Opener "Holy Embers" is the brightest of the three, focusing on God's love for us despite our failures (although doubt does get mentioned). This sets up the deeper exploration of the other two songs, "Learn How to Listen" and "Believe." The former finds Bourque trying to teach himself patience: "And maybe belief is a slow-burning flame/Not a spark, not a fire, but what remains." "Believe" closes out the EP with the desperate cry, "I want to have faith, but struggle with doubt/You know my heart, I need you now/Jesus be near me, all I want is to believe." While the love songs are sweet in their own right, these spiritual tunes are likely what most listeners will find relatable. What makes Bourque's admissions of doubt palatable is their pairing with the pop/punk sound that's always driving ahead. As a listener, you get the point and you move on. That's life.
The dichotomy of bright, optimistic love songs with darker, spiritual songs wrestling with doubt make 4:32 AM an interesting EP. The clash of these two topics might seem random, but any parent who has been up with a child for multiple nights knows what strange things cross the mind in those hours. Maybe it will help a listener to think of this EP as an unconnected set, but the recurring themes are hard to miss. What's clear is that even early in the morning, Charming to the Last continues to churn out great music that indie rock fans can jam out to no matter the time of day.
- Review date: 9/2/25, written by John Underdown of Jesusfreakhideout.com
"Holy Embers" is a great example of this. The band certainly has serious and faith-based songs in their catalog, but the EP's opener brings that to a different level. Bourque sings, "All creation tells the story of a love that never fails. Fingerprints of God in every detail. I've wondered far and sunk so deep, but still You love me. I made a mess of everything; still You love me," in the chorus. This one sets the EP up with a different vibe than the nostalgia-fest we got in 2024. "Steal Every Slow Dance" feels like it's going to be a goofier song, ala-Relient K, but instead, it's a love song for his wife. The lyrics are playful here, sure, but they really focus on not wanting to miss a moment with his wife. "Learn How Listen" and "The Hardest Parts" both carry their own weight. The first talks about listening to God in the quiet, while "The Hardest Parts" relives memories of his marriage while relishing even the times spent in the hardest parts of life. "Out Life In Boxes" features an acoustic guitar and is another song about his relationship with his wife over the years as they moved around and raised a family together. "Believe" wraps up the EP with lyrics that look at doubt, struggles, and recovering from life's blows. Here Ben sings, "For all of my life I've struggled with doubt; You've heard the times that I've cried out. Jesus feel real to me; I don't know if I believe. I wanna have faith, but struggle with doubt. You know my heart it needs You now. Jesus be near to me; all I want is to believe," as the song and EP close.
4:32 AM was written while Bourque was up with his son after nightmares -- always seemingly occurring at that time. The EP is one of relationships. Three songs are about his relationship with Jesus, while the other three songs are about his relationship with his wife. While some of these messages are extremely personal, they are all ideas and concepts that we can share collectively. I joked that this is Charming to the Last's "mature" release, but it really does bring a tone that's different than what we've heard before. Ben Bourque continues to grow and improve as a songwriter, and he is quickly becoming a favorite of mine. 4:32 AM is another top-notch release from Charming to the Last, and I would highly recommend that fans of pop/punk and alt/rock check out the latest outing. - Review date: 9/11/25, written by Michael Weaver of Jesusfreakhideout.com
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